Posted on: Friday, August 25, 2006
Posted at: 8:43 PM
Love is not possessive, if you like the moon, you
can't just take it down
and put it in your basin. But the moonlight still
shines upon you. In other
words, when you love a person, you can use
another method of possessing the
person. Let him become a permanent memory in
your life. If you really love
a person, you must love him for what he is. Love
him for his good points, and
the bad. You can't wish for him to become like
what you like him to be just
because you love him. If he can't change to
become what you like him to be,
you don't love him anymore.
When you really love a person, you cannot find
a reason why you love him, you only know that no
matter when and where,
good mood or bad mood, you will wish to have this
person be with you.
Real love is when two people can go through the
toughest problems without
asking for promises or listing criteria. In a
relationship, you have to put
in effort and give in at times, and not always be on
the receiving end.
Being away from each other is a type of test. If the
relationship isn't
strong, then you can only admit defeat..
Real love
will never become hate.